Distance Issue with My Top 10 People

Relationship is always a favorite topic of mine. Usually I write about it in a happy optimistic tone. But in this post, I want to write with an added serious tone, so readers, please imagine the seriousness ok ~.

Zura finally came to Kuantan last weekend. (Yeayyy =)!) Thanks for coming, do come again gurl! Yeah we talked a lot. One of the topics is that we both worry on Wengurls seem to be drifting apart. It’s been +/- 2 months since our last group outing. And I wasn’t there at Apid’s house last month. And where all the emails go nowadays? Hey hey Wengurls, Sha+Aleen+Ja+Noran+Fina+Diha+Apid+Fira+Zura, come on, we have to do something before it’s too late.

We drift apart because our lives progress through different stages with newer distractions, and the things that the clique used to have in common seem to diminish. We’re no longer in the same university (oh I miss those “old times” fun), instead scattered here and there in Malaysia to work. Every member of Wengurls grows in different directions. But I think that the growth is still somewhat complementary - we have more diverse topics to chat about. What we need is to frequently make the effort to update each other on a regular basis about what is going on in our lives.

A week passed by, mrCarlos is again, no longer in Kuantan =( *sob*sob* back in KL. The distance and his absence make my heart grows fonder, looking forward to see him again before our hearts make room to wander (haihh, hopefully it’ll never reach that point). Last week was a mini-falling-in-love ~ the bittersweet absence and the coming together once more. Hurt or help. Good or bad. Oohhs or aahs. Time will tell.